~show you that being your truest authentic self, was essential for the optimal function of your being through out your life. We all have different stages or lessons that we may be learning and will decipher what resonates on the best level for us at that time. The point is to continue deciding on what is good for you because you truly believe it or is it the personality imprinted by something else and you go along with it possibly out of fear of rejection or being seen or some other reason that may exist for you.
One thing that I find that helps, is to ask yourself these few questions periodically to check on your most authentic expression of life.
Why do you think the things you think?
Why do you say the things you say?
Why do you do or not do the things you do?
From what I've learned/observed is that a large portion of the answers to the questions above, are related to the subconscious and unconscious mind. So possibly stuff that happened in childhood or early adult experiences and some feel that it can be due to other lifetimes. When you can really be honest with yourself about your true motivations in any given scenario, then you can either
continue along that path or transform that, belief in question, into something that is now a 'lesson' you learned and can now move onto something that is in more alignment with your joy, love, passion, authenticity, personality, attire, activities etc.
If something (feelings, situations, relationships, financial wellbeing, security) is not going the best way for you, then it could be due to an outdated or possibly harmful subconscious belief such as "I'm not enough, I have to keep proving my worth in my relationships in some form or another" Doing nice things for others is great but check in to see if you are receiving too. A big part of Law of Attraction not working for some, is that they are having a hard time receiving or allowing the Universe to provide. Not receiving doesn't mean that you are more humble or modest or better, it just means that you have an in-balance in the giving and receiving area of your life~that's it. You should never feel like you have to prove your worth, KNOW you are enough with out overdoing in showing that to others. The tricky thing is that most have grown up with the hard in grained notion that in order to feel worthy, they have to gain approval from an outside source first and THEN can appreciate themselves. Often the case is, is that they keep attracting people that don't see their worth until THEY do. That's often but the other part is that if they DO attract people into their lives that see how amazing they are with out having to prove it to them, they still might not believe them~ Still goes back to the idea that how you see yourself will ultimately be reflected by others in relationships and therefore can feel it coming from them back to you. Unless that person is not in alignment with you approving of yourself, then they may leave for a time or for good but will be for the best for both of you. It's draining on the personal energy field to be a people pleaser. Do you first so you feel whole and come from that place in your thoughts, words and actions. That's just one example of a subconscious belief. There's plenty to chose from according to your case.
Questioning yourself can seem intimidating for some, especially if they grew up in a very strict or controlling environment but I encourage you to give it a shot..Give YOU a shot at being your best YOU.
The picture is from a movie I watched the other night on Netflix "Beginners" a film shot in the U.S.A. I loved some of the ways it was filmed, quite unique. LOVED this picture of course and so you see part of my computer in it.
Song: Alone in Kyoto by Air
HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY!
With appreciation and kindness