Something I've noticed, is that a LOT of the people that follow this blog or read my Instagram account are business owners (of all kinds), life coaches/healers, and health/nature advocates. Way before I started Spredluv (2011-2012) I have been someone that people from Hedge fund owners, salon owners, interior designers, to someone that wanted to have a food truck that had a theme of music for their food have ask my advice. It's really across the board. I LOVE seeing people's dreams seem feasible and for some reason I always knew a way of helping them, no matter what the topic. Sure it helps that my interests are across the board too but I think it's more than that~way more, something much more expanded that me. I could feel myself sometimes getting so into it that it was as if I was channeling Spirit or maybe mine and their High Self/Soul self just because some of the things that would come out of my mouth, I hadn't even thought or talked about much before. This is a guide on how to use the greater version of Love that is always available. To me, God/Source/Allah/Universe what ever word you feel comfortable using.~IS the ultimate source of Love. None of this is using any kind of organized religion, therefore won't go against or offend most people's beliefs. It's not my intention for sure anyway, I honor all hearts. You could even use the word intuition. To me, intuition IS the soul part of the person giving the body guidance.
Just yesterday I was working with a woman that is in her 60's and she told me that in her next life she wants to be an interior designer and she told me that she LOVES designing rooms and homes in her mind and study's it on her free time. I said "Please don't wait until your next life, you're ready NOW" Then we went on to talk about all the ways she could easily go about starting now, what resources she would need, what to call her business, what ways to market and more. All within a matter of 45 min. She was so excited I thought she would take flight if she could! It was BEAUTIFUL watching that glow on her face. You're never too old to do something new~ you're gonna pass the time anyway and even if you are financially stable, I implore you to keep finding ways to be creative, not only is it fun but will also help keep your brain and body functioning with greater ease and health.
I happen to enjoy architecture and landscape therefore decided to make this scenario using a Realestate agent and the sale property. HOWEVER it may be applied to~basically any kind of business venture.
Things you will need
1. Adequate water everyday. Especially to all you caffeine users. I'm not saying don't have caffeine but never use it as a replacement of water. 50 oz PER DAY, 75 oz or 100 if you work out which I suggest to do anyway, as it gets not only your bodily juices flowing but also circulation to your brain, therefore focusing easier afterwards. Plus adequate water can help you feel grounded as it naturally helps to bring your body in to more of a balance.
2. Find a way to LOVE what you do. I can always tell when someone isn't really passionate about what they are doing. If that seems far fetched at the moment then just sit and think of things, people, places of which you are grateful, then move to gratitude for what you are contributing to your line of work and the people you are helping.
3. Get your confidence ON! NOT a time to play small or be wishy washy or too much in your head. One way to counter act feeling too flighty, maybe you are nervous about a sale, therefore taking away from focus and being really PRESENT for yourself and your clients, is to get outside for a minute and touch a tree or some nearby plants. The reason for this is plant life naturally has a grounding affect on humans. Imagine your feet growing roots or roots from the base of your tail bone done to the center of the earth and breath deep. This doesn't have to take a super long time, a few minutes will do. If that's absolutely out of the question, get some plants for the office and touch them and still do the visualization of the roots. When people are grounded their words are more believable as they are coming from and giving off more of a centered and wholesome vibe, than if someone is too in their head which could come off as forceful and imbalanced~possibly less believable. Of course doing your research on the house, land, and properties assets are going to help you feel more confident. Learn as much as you can.
4.Be Present: One quick way to be IN your body is to pretend that you are breathing in and out of your whole body~not just your nose and mouth. Try it now, Close your eyes and feel your body, tune in, pretend wind (color it even if that helps) is going in and out of all your body's pores and repeat one more time before you meet up with clients or co-workers~basically anytime during the day your starting to feel yourself wanting to escape or daydreaming about something or someplace else when you know you need to be here~now
5. Get the client/s in mind and think/feel how you genuinely intend to help them. Keep in mind, the energy you put off, is what you will feel the most and also the energy that will come back to you. Really caring about helping the people with whom you are working is always going to be of benefit, plus it feels good. When you get to that place, it'll most likely set the tone for a positive flow and relationship with them.
6. OK! NOW onto the magic! You've got all your T's crossed and your i's dotted. Great! Now, ask for your higher self/soulself to help guide you to the best property that fits your clients best interest for the highest good of all. Once you add the Universe/God (your preferred word) then you allow yourself to be guided, then you can automatically be more directed to a place that maybe you didn't even think about as our soul can see WAY more than our mental bodies can take us and always has the best interest of heart. Even though you may have had all the information they gave you~doesn't matter. You could be guided to a place you didn't even think of or couldn't have thought of prior due to them or you thinking it would be out of their price or mile radius range. You could be guided to the perfect house that actually had that extra room in the back or closer to a great school for their kids OR it's more of a Victorian look than a Ranch style home they really wanted in the first place or didn't know they'd like until they saw the property. NO this isn't bringing religion into the work place it's using an aspect of you that you ALWAYS have access to. Think of the Great Spirit helping your soul aspect to guide your physical body. A few signs that you're "tuning" into this aspect of you is a sense of peace, chills may be felt in your body, a feeling of joy. This is also one way to say you're following your heart but this is an example of being able to actually apply that concept in EVERY SINGLE DAY OF YOUR LIFE! Love is always available~ allow it. It's time, you deserve it and so do your clients. Yes it's both feminine AND masculine to do this. Love is androgynous. The only reason people ever make it an issue of having to be one way or another is afraid to experience it,maybe not understanding love is already inside them. Love is what makes us strong. It's never love that hurts, it's the conditions placed upon its allowance/flow that can trigger a low vibe reaction. It's safe AND fun to apply Love! Having the intention to be the best and highest good for all (you and your clients) that means success for both being whatever that means for you but also a quicker sale getting then onto the next people you get to serve.
One more tip: GET OUT OF COMPETITION MINDSET! Yes, look at what others are doing to possibly improve what you are trying to do but NEVER go into a sale thinking "I better get this before someone else does" that right there is coming from a Lack energy instead of a Prosperity energy/mindset of THERE'S ENOUGH. Seriously DO this. Here's why, when you put out to the Universe that you are intending that all is going to be the best and the BEST opportunity will arise for both you and your clients, THEN THE UNIVERSE CAN MORE READILY PROVIDE! NEVER FORGET YOUR INNER POWER OF POSITIVE INFLUENCE! EVER!
I got chills writing this whole thing so that tells me that it's gonna help an amazing amount of people out there. I believe it. I trust it.
Give it a shot~ you got nothing to lose and everything to gain.