I've been studying different aspects of Karma or another words, the energy that inevitably comes back because of our own energetic signature in all bodies~Physical, emotional, mental etc. Here's a few ways to look at it.
The energy that we are contains, what we think, say and do. With in THAT contains our unconscious, sub conscious and conscious the sub and un conscious have many vibrations we are not exactly aware, meaning they contain many beliefs, emotions, Fears AND Loves whether it feels "right" or "wrong" because we may not actually INTEND for our vibration to attract a certain situation, depending on the time in our lives, place, company with our conscious mind (the more surface thoughts/ideas)
Using the title of this as an example:
A Player : Pretty much everyone has an idea of what that title means. Both genders could be a player. To me; it's someone that manipulates through lies, deception, fake-fronts, plays on emotions, or something along those lines in order to use others and many times, multiple partners' energy (attention) to get a sense of self gratification, confidence boost, money, the feeling of what they think is love, emotional support or in some cases it's a power game~literally calculating when and how to operate consistently, in some cases the exact same people (and each one for a different energy-type syphoning) for more or less than a year, to evoke some sense of power over others.
I talk to many walks of life so this could be for males or females playing men/women or both.
If someone is playing at least 3 people at a time and has made up excuses that seem logical to the different people that are being played, as to why they (the player) can't always be around (work, school, working out, practice, etc.) and is consistent with those excuses. And uses all 3 people for different energies (reasons) and not even having sex with all but one, another one for money, and another one for constant emotional support.
This person has to use constant attention giving tactics (but usually very minimally, because remember they're main interest is to take) and seeming interested in each and maybe are to a point but not fully. This person using lying, cheating (obviously, because the player never tells them about each other to give them a fair knowing of what they are getting into and that would include them not receiving all of that positive energy)~ manipulation emotionally or mentally (especially if they may think about leaving them) basically overall being a con-artist.
What the player is doing no matter what tactic or many..is putting that energy into their own vibrational field, attracting more lack and increasing that lack mentality. This means putting, paranoia (of being caught or losing one or more), poverty consciousness, powerlessness, lies, being cheated (not necessarily sexually but maybe not getting that promotion or advancement as an example, mental anguish or overthinking, worthiness issues (attracting others or circumstances that result in them not feeling worthy or seeing their worth, possibly resentment, and more but most of all they are entraining (no matter how sexual they are with all 3 of them, kissing, foreplay, full on intercourse, constant thinking of how to keep it going with each, they are strongly entraining (connecting to all 3 vibrational frequencies of each individual) much of the time, most likely daily...now consider how many emotions or situations all 3 of those people go through on a daily~ a LOT of F'ing energy. Plus, if all 3 people suddenly at the same time want the players attention they to some degree take the energy of the player, by building cords to them, most likely in different chakras.
NOW what to do if YOU got played (in other words what could have happened that those people have attracted some one that has serious attention addiction)
Remember what was said at the beginning~ we attract our thoughts, words and actions which includes our Fears AND Loves on a conscious or subconscious level and some may mention that this includes an accumulation of other life times~I'll leave you to your beliefs about that.
Either way, LISTEN TO YOUR INTUITION if something consistently feels off about someone, don't lie to yourself, no one is worth more than you... do a self check (I've given plenty of ways in my blog or talk to a healer of some kind to make sure you're not paranoid (but don't let someone else convince you of that...that's a strong player tactic or even someone that is jealous)
Do a self check:
Are you afraid of being cheated on, lied to, manipulated, abandonment issues, lack mentality (seeing that there's not one person that could fullfill your needs essentially you have to become the person you wish to attract or have strong beliefs to attract a certain person, did/do you have parents or people that have influence over you, have addictions growing up or now, hard time trusting yourself, are attention needy yourself, have imbalances with over giving, powerlessness or worthiness issues, or have a victim mentality (attracting more things, people, situations) to blame to keep staying in victim-hood OR something else...
Drop your shoulders and take a big breath and now do it again~
It's a big fucking energy game people. The quicker you can stay empowered and fuel YOURSELF from the earth, your heart, your spirit self, your own mental chatter (positive affirmations) The better your confidence >>true confidence from self not using others for it, self appreciation/love, health, prosperity consciousness and attract positive experiences all around.
You MUST check your own ass
What is your life containing right now
what are your dominant thoughts
what is it that you truly want in life
Who do you need to forgive? By forgiving and letting go..you also let go of the karma~what you are and what you will/are attracting.
Read empowering books, music, conversation, find news ways to value yourself. This all will include change which can feel off at first but if you really want something...then do it/go for it by EMBODYING IT.
Karma by Alicia Keys
What goes around comes back around by Justin Timberlake