Love is an energy that is consistently vibrating around the frequency hertz of 528. It is the true essence of who we are at our core. The body we have is the house for our soul. Our body holds information that it was given by
~what we believe our environment tells us,
~what we believe of what others say about us or life as a whole,
~what we buy into when watching/seeing something and even what we just simply see in passing (our mind is always recording whether we can comprehend it or not),
~What is listened to,
~What is engaged in physically or conversationally
~What is ingested food/drink
~Our thoughts and intentions play a huge role in how the body functions
ALL of this information is stored in our body~somewhere~no specific area generally, unless you had an accident of some sort and your wrist got injured, then that situation (the trauma, feeling etc) may more than likely get stored in your wrist area~not always the case but to give a minor example.
(As a side note, if this DID happen to you or someone you know, and it's the right wrist then you may need to clear that areas energy to be able to take more action in life if the right wrist is your dominant hand, if the left, and it's your less dominant hand then work on clearing that energy to be able to receive more in life)
You have more storage in your one body, than all of the the computers in the world combined.
All of this being said:
Certain events/situations in life can get stored in your body, this also includes your energy centers as well, your chakras or the parts of your body that correlate with a certain chakra off of the main seven~Crown, Third Eye, Throat, Heart, Solar Plexus, Sacral and Root. There's many more Sub chakras in the body but will focus more on a few of the main, more known, 7 which affect the flow of your natural rhythm and the sub chakras anyway. All of the chakras govern different aspects of each individual life. Look that information up on your own. Maybe in a later post I'll get into it but for now...
The flow of Love~ will affect ALL parts of your body, at all times. The core of the love can be more felt in the actual body part area, Heart Chakra, and Higher Heart (a place that is about midway between your throat and actual heart)
When there is an emotional trauma, heart ache (ex: break up, betrayal etc)worthiness issues, abandonment, rejection, unrequited romantic feelings, anything that can cause what is considered fear (financial scare or sudden expenses, anger, resentment, un-forgiveness, rage, judgment, sudden change to name a few examples) all of which can be very personal to the individual.
When these emotions are not released right away or properly, they can cause blockages in the heart's energetic flow. This causes the flow to slow minorly or to a great extent.
A majority of people are taught to with-hold their emotions and not cry (especially for men as it seems in most area of the world) and anger (especially for women as it seems in most areas of the world too) which is a bunch of lies since emotions are genderless they are meant for both genders to express, when confronted with what is deemed a contrast in what is wanted at that particular moment, appropriately.
Laughter can be a release too. This is why some people may spontaneously laugh at what may appear as pretty in-appropriate times, try not to judge it now that you know.
When the emotions, that stem from beliefs/patterns, are not fully or even partly released out of the system, you may find yourself on a looping behavior. For example if you find yourself attracting the same kind of partner (romantic in this case) no matter HOW different they may seem on the outside, they still have qualities that feel harmful to you (drug addict, anger issues, are there and then suddenly unavailable or dismiss your feelings etc) That's something in YOUR energy body that is attracting it. There is an energetic match in your field that is a perfect vibrational match for the other party's energetic field. I'm not saying you deserve horrible treatment but now that you know, you can do some deep work on moving past it, by developing a relationship with yourself first and releasing what doesn't serve and daily integrating what DOES. This is also why it's healthy to give yourself sometime between relationships~evaluate what worked, what didn't and then look in yourself and see what could change~expectations? something learned growing up or early in life? Cultural norms that don't resonate with you? Take some time and honor what comes up. Your body and soul will tell you~listen with out judgment.
NO ONE CAN DO THE WORK BUT YOU~THIS WILL BE THE CASE FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE~GET STARTED AND THEN CONTINUE~GO THE DISTANCE, DIVE TO THE DEEPEST PARTS OF YOURSELF~WHY?~ BECAUSE YOUR WORTH IT AND IF YOU DON'T THINK YOU'RE WORTH IT? WELL~THAT'S A PERFECT VIBRATIONAL MATCH FOR SOMEONE ELSE TO LINK UP WTH YOU THAT DOESN'T ULTIMATELY THINK YOUR WORTH IT EITHER OR SOMEONE DOES SEE YOUR VALUE BUT YOU DON'T BELIEVE THEM BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT IN THE RECEPTIVE MODE~BELIEVING IT YOURSELF... starting to make sense now?
These are all lessons that can be learned and rather quickly if you keep up on it All of it gets easier with daily notes of self awareness.
The slowing of love can affect the flow of all the chakras starting with the root all the way to the crown and here is a small list of those areas of life without diving too deep into what chakra does what. Safety, grounded, prosperity and abundance, intimacy, feelings of empowerment, confidence, speaking up/expression, confusion, worthiness, trust, gratitude, feeling connected to Spirit or many other parts of the psyche can be affected by the flow of love. The flow meaning to give and receive freely with out condition~first within yourself and then spilling over to others.
Since love is generally associated with so many emotions, it often gets a wrap, if the person or group of individuals feel jaded or victimized~ to hurting or being a curse or something to stay away from to avoid feeling.
Now you see that it's NEVER love that hurts ~it's what slows or blocks the flow that causes the sensation of suffering. What you TIE to the idea of love~
Being in-authentic to your true self at any given scenario can be a slowing factor in the feeling of receiving love too~
For example: If a man/woman has romantic feelings for someone but the person they know in their heart of hearts to be a true match for them through and through are not what they're family or friends would expect from them and so they pretend that another type of person, someone that IS maybe the religion or race they're family/current friends would want (or what they think they would want) That's not only NOT being authentic to their self but also that portrays issues of worthiness. If they knew their worth, they would know they will receive love and support from the people that truly care and will stand by them. Besides it's amazing what can happen when two people that have a healthy relationship with themselves and have love/appreciation for their own soul & journey~and their Divine Counterpart (and in some cases twin flame) does too~That energy vibration alone (that they create through their love together by connecting) not only raises their vibrational frequency to even higher levels (bliss is at a higher level for example) but ALSO raises everyone's level that is around or connected to them, individually or together. Actually helping the vibration of the planet, making it a more peaceful loving place, by setting a marvelous example. Too, since you being authentic to yourself/healthy choices, is why you're here on the planet right now, you being yourself IS what is needed for others as well! Them being authentic back is not what to look at. You do you
You are here to be your self authentically at every life-turn. This will cause change but change is the only constant, so nothing to be afraid of. Your mind will slow you down but keep pushing forward. The ego part of the mind would have you doing same shit different day for the rest of your life if you let it. It's not something to deny or hate , many people say " kill the ego" no, it's part of you, just know it's role, to keep you alert to problems and keep you alive but that doesn't mean what you're doing is good for you, it just means that what you've done has kept you alive. This is why many will stay in an abusive relationship, keep addictions alive or keep the same routine verbatim day after day, because it's what is known, not because it's what is good/healthy. See?
KNOW YOUR POWER OVER YOUR LIFE~IT'S YOURS NO ONE ELSES. Constantly being afraid of what others think will decrease your sense of power and value. No one ever does has a reflection of your true worth. You were worthy of love and your truest dreams before you were ever born, it's your soul's "right"
Once again~ the flow of love means giving and receiving it. Shutting yourself off from it or the world because your hurt only blocks not only receptivity in love~ but also every other awesome thing that could happen in your life. Like fun gifts, synchronicity, appreciation, joy, money, opportunity, pleasant happenstance, an amazing partner, etc..... Fine if you want to "hermit" for a while while you re evealute your life but try not to put up walls, just intend to work on you~while still receiving all that is the best in your life and outcome.
Intention is Key
If you're finding yourself feeling like you can't start with loving You for what ever reason, then start with life around you. Find joy and appreciation for all around you, get out in nature! Nature is where I experience true unconditional love for myself out side of myself. It always loves you. You're always loved by the cosmos, people you may not even know, animals, the very air you breath loves you. The only thing that makes you feel cut off is receptivity but practicing love for the surroundings or earth can get you started in the direction of the vibration that feels like it's easier to receive. Too many of us are taught to Give, give give but if you're not receiving A. you're not doing anyone any favors or helping yourself or your life B. Gonna be way harder to manifest your dreams/ next project etc. Can someone that's acting like a complete prick and doing what they can to hurt others (generally this is fear based) manifest? Yes, they can still have expectations and learned skills that allow them to receive their desired outcome HOWEVER there's always Karma (the energy and intention that is sent out and comes back inevitably and when least expected a lot of the time) to be dealt with. The way I'm teaching is way more fun and the Karma is inevitably going to have more positive dividends/return. Plus, healthier ...the list goes on.. Smile
Healthy ways to release emotions are physical activity or singing/speaking them into the air (not at someone, give yourself a breather and go outside if your pissed at someone release and then come back, you just might need to release some pent up stuff and then when you're done you may reaize that you would have over reacted to that person..food for thought). Imagine the emotions that are coming up and let them go and send love and forgiveness to the scenario and emotion. Can picture them as cartoon hearts or shapes if you want to, this releases you from the attachment to the emotion or scenario and fill yourself up with even more golden energy of love by breathing in your back heart (place that is parallel to your front heart, place where we receive the energy of love) and then exhale that out of your front heart (actual place of heart where you give love) You can also go out in nature and ask a tree to help you transmute the energy. I always ask, it's polite, and can put your back up to the trunk of it and breath in the trees energy and ground in mixing your grounding cord with the tree's and send the emotions/beliefs/thoughts into the branches to be transmuted into the Ethers.
I have added to this message an energy healing to help you feel unconditional love. I have energetically placed a ball of love on your back heart and front to help the flow increase. It won't work unless you accept it with a "Yes" To feel into it
Close your eyes
Place your hands over your heart
That's it! If you are receiving you may feel tingles or a heat sensation. Allow the flow
Allow it to help encourage your own essence of love with in and fill your whole being up.
No cost~ just allowing the Absolute, Infinite, Divine, Unconditional Love.
Love is the ultimate renewable resource
Let Love In by the Goo Goo Dolls